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"Paul Friedman Shares: Dealing with a Blaming Spouse - My Experience"

"When my husband blames me for everything, what should I do?" I'm going to try to give you some perspective and please never feel like I'm speaking down to you at all or that I question your ability to reason things out. But remember, I have a lot more experience than you do, and sometimes what is obvious to me may not be obvious to you, or maybe it is obvious to you but you didn't really want to address it because you didn't think that part was important. I'm going to try and give you perspective and context. More importantly, I'm going to try to give you a pathway out of your problem which is your husband's blaming you for everything. So, what does that really mean to me? It means that your husband is angry with you. We don't blame somebody for everything when we are feeling love towards them. It's sort of a contrary feeling rather than him feeling love towards you. He's angry with you. It doesn't mean that he doesn&#